Have you ever felt like your closet is overwhelming or that it’s hard to find things to wear, even though it’s full? Do you feel stuck in a cycle of buying things that never quite fit into your lifestyle or style preferences? Today I will share with you 3 STYLE TRAPS keeping you stuck and how to break free!
Style Trap 1. “Saving” it for the right time.
Sometimes, we hold onto clothes because of sentimental value or past styles we liked. But holding onto these items means you might be stuck in the past and not allowing yourself to evolve. Style changes over time, and holding on to old pieces can stop you from embracing a fresh look that feels more “you” right now.
You might feel like you “should” wear certain items because you spent money on them, or they were gifts, or they remind you of a certain time in your life. That guilt can prevent you from getting rid of things that don’t serve you, leading to a wardrobe that doesn’t truly feel like yours.
Start wearing your “best” clothes in everyday life—because you are worth it!
Style Trap 2. “Comfort Over Style” Myth
Comfort can sometimes feel “safe,” but if you always stick to what you know works in terms of comfort, you may find yourself avoiding new styles or trends that could actually be flattering or exciting. Over time, this can result in a monotonous wardrobe and make it harder to experiment with new styles or pieces.
A style that reflects you doesn’t have to be uncomfortable, but when comfort becomes your only focus, you might miss out on items that would bring you joy or enhance your self-expression. That said, it’s totally possible to find stylish pieces that are comfortable too! It’s about striking that balance between feeling good and looking good.
Find comfortable but stylish alternatives (structured joggers, knit dresses, relaxed blazers). Invest in well-fitting essentials that feel good on your body.
Style Trap 3. “Too Many Clothes – Nothing to Wear”
Having a closet full of clothes but still feeling like you have nothing to wear often comes down to having so many options that it becomes hard to make a decision. You might look at a pile of clothes, but nothing feels right for the moment, or you can’t find a combination that feels cohesive. Instead of being inspired, you feel overwhelmed.
Sometimes, it’s hard to part with items that no longer fit your style or are outdated because of sentimental reasons or guilt over money spent. Holding onto these pieces takes up valuable closet space and creates more mental clutter, making it harder to see what’s worth wearing.
Remove items that don’t fit, flatter, or feel right. Focus on versatile staples that make dressing easy.
Reflecting on these style traps is such a useful way to break free from them. Understanding how things like overstuffed closets or prioritizing comfort too much can hold you back is the first step in creating a wardrobe that truly serves you. Once you start clearing out the clutter and focusing on pieces that really reflect your personal style and lifestyle, you’ll probably find it much easier to get dressed and feel confident every day.
If you’re ready to tackle your wardrobe or just need some tips on refreshing your look, I’m here to help!
Why not join my LIVE ONLINE interactive styling sessions, weekly on Tuesday at 8pm (Sydney Time) for more style tips, or for more personalised support, check out THE STYLE EDIT program and THE ULTIMATE STYLE MAKEOVER.
Not sure where to go next? Book in your free initial 25min consult today and we can find the answer together!
