Being a mum, and a woman, can change our bodies in ways we never expected. But confidence isn’t about fitting into an old pair of jeans — it’s about embracing who you are right now. When what you’re wearing aligns with your current body, lifestyle, and personality, this is when you will feel your best. True confidence in fashion doesn’t come from squeezing into a smaller size or chasing trends—it comes from self-acceptance and intentional styling.
So what does that look like in real life?
Here’s THE SECRET to feeling amazing in your clothes, no matter how your body has changed:
DRESS THE BODY YOU HAVE NOW
Holding onto clothes that no longer fit can make you feel stuck. Clothes that fit well now are an act of kindness to yourself. Instead of waiting to “get back” to a certain size, celebrate your current shape by:
Clearing out anything that doesn’t fit or make you feel good.
Investing in key pieces that flatter your present silhouette (think well-fitting jeans, a tailored blazer, or a wrap dress).
Choosing fabrics with stretch for comfort without sacrificing style.
START WITH HOW YOU WANT TO FEEL
Confidence begins with intention. Do you want to feel comfortable? Put-together? Strong? Fun? Whether it’s a sleek blazer and jeans combo for a confidence boost or a cosy knit dress for ease, dressing for your mood shifts your mindset. Before getting dressed, ask yourself: “How do I want to feel today?” and “What outfit makes me feel that way?”
Practical Tip: Create a “Feel-Good Outfit Formula” based on your most common moods!
“I need a confidence boost” = A dress in your favorite color + statement earrings + heels (or chic flats!)
“I need to feel put-together” = Structured blazer + well-fitted top + tailored trousers
“I want to feel relaxed but stylish” = Oversized knit + leggings or jeans + ankle boots
DID YOU KNOW? Members of the STYLE EDIT and clients of the ULTIMATE STYLE MAKEOVER have access to shop-boards of outfit formulas and core closet seasonal items to suit their body shape! Find out more by clicking the link below.
FIND YOUR TRUE BODY SHAPE AND STYLE PERSONALITY
Not every trend works for every body—and that’s okay! Once you understand your body shape and your unique style, it becomes SO much easier to shop, style, and get dressed without second guessing yourself. Discover what truly suits you by:
Identifying your body shape (see below for the FREE BODY SHAPE QUIZ!) and learning what silhouettes highlight your best features.
Defining your style personality (boho, classic, minimalist, edgy, etc) so your wardrobe feels authentically you.
Accessorising strategically — a great bag, bold earrings, or a statement belt can elevate any look effortlessly.
Confidence isn’t about perfection—it’s about owning who you are. So next time you get dressed, ask yourself: “Does this outfit make me happy?” If the answer is yes, wear it with pride. Dress for your joy, and the rest will follow. 💛
Remember – your style is allowed to evolve as you do. You don’t have to go it alone, and you don’t have to sacrifice comfort for confidence!
And if you would like my personalised support, just send me a message or click the link below, and we’ll have a chat. Because you deserve to feel confident every day, no matter what season of life you are in!
