Here are a few Common Mindset Blocks I hear all the time that are the Holding You Back From Feeling Stylish. Tell me if any of these sound familiar…
These blocks aren’t truths—they’re stories we tell ourselves. And the best part? You get to rewrite them!
- “I’ll Wait Until I Lose Weight.” We’ve all been there — putting off buying that pair of jeans because we’re waiting to “lose a few kilos” or feel “better” in our skin. But here’s the truth: style has no size limit, and confidence starts today, not someday. Instead of waiting, embrace your body as it is right now. Play with colours, prints, and silhouettes that make you feel amazing. Remember, trends come and go, but self-love is always in style.
2. “I Should be able to Figure this out Myself.” Ever stared at your closet feeling overwhelmed but thought, “I should be able to figure this out myself”? Asking for Style Help Isn’t Cheating — It’s Smart!
Here’s why:
✔️ Time-Saving Magic: Stylists cut through the clutter (literally and mentally) to curate looks tailored just for you—no more wasted hours scrolling or returning ill-fitting clothes.
✔️ Fresh Eyes: They spot gaps in your wardrobe, suggest flattering cuts you’d never try, and even repurpose pieces you already own.
✔️ No-Judgment Zone: A pro isn’t there to critique—they’re your hype squad, helping you see your best self when you’re stuck in a style rut.
3. “I Just can’t Justify Spending Money on Myself.” Sound familiar? You’ll happily splurge on your kids, your home, or gifts for others—but the moment you consider buying yourself a quality coat or a flattering pair of jeans, guilt creeps in. “It’s selfish.” “I should save the money.” “I don’t really need it.”
How to Shift Your Thinking:
✔ Reframe It as an Investment, Not a Splurge – A great-fitting blazer or comfortable, stylish shoes isn’t frivolous—it’s practical.
✔ Start Small – You don’t need a full wardrobe overhaul. One well-made staple (like a perfect pair of jeans) can transform multiple outfits.
✔ Think of the Ripple Effect – When you feel good in your skin, you show up brighter for your family, your work, and yourself. That’s worth investing in.
4. ” I Hate Shopping and Fashion Overwhelms me!” If the thought of shopping makes you want to hide in your trusty leggings, you’re not alone. But what if you could skip the stress and look effortlessly polished? That’s where a stylist like myself comes in! Your shortcut to confidence without the chaos. No more wandering stores aimlessly or scrolling for hours online. No more buying pieces that hang unworn in your closet. No more dressing-room meltdowns! A stylist isn’t a luxury—it’s a time-saving, confidence-boosting hack for mums who want to look good without the hassle.
5. “I’m too Old for a Stylist.” Let’s bust this myth right now: Style has no expiration date. In fact, the older you get, the more a stylist can help you look and feel your absolute best. Hiring a stylist isn’t about “fixing” you. It’s about giving yourself permission to shine at every age. A stylist helps you:
✔ Avoid outdated stereotypes (no, you don’t have to ditch colour or trends after 40!)
✔ Prioritises ease without sacrificing style
Worried it’ll feel intimidating? Remember, I work for you and am here to listen. I’m here to help you dress for comfort and style, while reflecting your personality, and most of all, help you dress for joy! Style has no age limit. Wear what makes you feel joy — Confidence is ageless.
If this is resonating with you, I want to encourage you to take one small step this week. Maybe it is wearing a colour you love, or saying no to the voice in your head that says “you don’t deserve this.”
You are worth this now!
And if you are ready to take the next step into your successful style journey but don’t know where to start LET’S HAVE A CONVERSATION. Click below to book a free 25min style consultation. We will find the right style program together to help you build your style confidence!
